But will they invite you back again?

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Summer is here and you've received a weekend invitation to afriend's cottage. While you're looking forward to relaxing in ahammock with a good book as the loons sing their doleful tune,remember: There is an art to being a good summer guest -- that is,one who gets invited back. So, consider a few of my dos and don'tsfor summer guests, compiled from a lifetime of observation,conversation and sheer trial and error.

Be on time If you say you will meet them at the marina at 7 p. m.,be there by 6:45. Cottagers have their own schedules, dictated byweather and darkness. Start off on the right foot by respectingtheirs.
 
Bring gifts A no-brainer. Gifts don't have to be elaborate, justthoughtful. New magazines, music, a tankful of gas for the boat,anything that will make your hosts happy to have you. One of themost appreciated gifts is a selection of good wines, some forconsumption on the weekend and some to stock your host's bar. Whenthey open your wines later, they will remember your thoughtfulness.Bring a meal and cook it The gesture alone is priceless. Give yourhosts a break by planning, cooking and serving an entire meal,complete with wines. It doesn't have to break the bank, although noone ever complains
about beef tenderloin on the grill.

It can be as simple asprecooking and bringing a lasagna, complete with garlic bread,salad and wine. This is especially appreciated on Friday nights.After a long week at work and stop-and-go traffic en route toparadise, the last thing your hosts want to do is feed the masses.Do it for them. And don't forget to do the dishes. Always.